A chastity device might seem like a strange thing to lock upon your man, and you might think it’s something from the Dark Ages or a weird fetish or kink that’s best left to “other people”
A Chastity Device Can Work Wonders in Your Marriage
Here are three reasons why:
- A chastity device will stop him masturbating. While this isn’t the cause of problems in a marriage it is the symptom of them and can lead to other problems. By saving his sexual energy for you, he’ll be focused on you just like he was before when you were first together.
- He will become more loving and attentive. Some people confuse this with his becoming submissive. This is possible, of course, but not as common as the hype-mongers would like you to believe. Truth is, you can NOT make him wear a chastity device unless he’s willing to wear it.
- Both of you will experience more physical and emotional intimacy – which most women actually want, but most men aren’t very good at. Paradoxically, couples who practice strict male chastity generally end up having more sex, not less (the difference is now the man rarely if ever gets to orgasm).
There is a big misconception that not only are all relationship problems down to men being lazy, and more interested in pornography than their wives, the truth is relationships become stale because both of you become comfortable with each other and feel you don’t have to try as hard.
Male chastity – enforced with a chastity device changes all that.
Now, in my experience when the idea of this is introduced to a partner, whether by a man or a woman, the reaction is often one of shock.
There are two reasons for this: first, most men blunder in with the most ill-thought-out approach and tend to focus on the sexual aspects; and secondly, there is an overwhelming image of a man who enjoys male chastity being some kind of submissive or a doormat, and his asking for this somehow makes him a bit strange.
The answer to the first is for men and women (although it’s nearly always the man who drives male chastity) to broach the subject in terms of what’s in it for their partner – and it’s not enough just to tell them… you’ve got to show them, too.
And to answer the second… if you’ve ever engaged in gentle teasing and playful “ask me nicely” during normal lovemaking, then you have already experienced a gentle form of male chastity. The only difference between this playing and more serious chastity enforced with a chastity device is the length of time the game is played over.
Of course, male chastity won’t mend a broken relationship and isn’t a panacea for all ills, and if you can’t stand the sight of each other or your partner’s touch makes your skin crawl, then I think male chastity of any kind is simply not going to help you.
So… if your relationship is fundamentally sound, and yet you know there’s a certain “something” you’ve lost in the time you’ve been together and you’d like to experience and rekindle those hot, passionate and irresistible “early days” feelings then…